Perhaps the most natural way to make friends and meet women is using what we call the indirect approach. This usually entails creating a fun and approachable party-like atmosphere around you that exudes energy and makes you more attractive to the opposite sex. Here are some ways to achieve the desired results:
Hang Out At High Traffic Zones
Where you set yourself up to meet people will greatly impact the amount of interaction you can accomplish. If you’re at a bar, for example, stay at the corners of the counter where people will have to go near or around you in order to grab their food and drinks. This same method is also the one you should employ during a party or an event. However, if there isn’t an open bar, hang out near the food table or refreshment stand. This gives you plenty of opportunity to make yourself seen and initiate a fun conversation.
A concert or a nightclub is a bit different because the main idea is to dance in close proximity. Hang around the space between the seating area and the dance floor. This is where most ladies will walk on or off the dance floor.
Create An Air Of Positivity Around You
It is important to show people that you have a good attitude and give off positive vibes while knowing how to have a good time. After all, would you want to approach the scowling guy in the corner or the one that can’t look up from his phone?
Have fun out on the dance floor with a drink in your hand. Having a good time is contagious and many women are naturally attracted to men that have a laidback outlook on life.
Cheer People As They Walk By
Perhaps the most laid back approach to attracting women is by cheering them as they walk near you. More often than not, it either initiates a conversation or at least gives you a smile in return. Not everyone may prove receptive to your gestures, but it does open your personality up more towards communication. It also helps you deal with quick rejection and prevents you from dwelling on things too deeply.
Always Flash A Smile
People that are always smiling or laughing have a type of magnetism that attracts women. Think about it: would you want to date someone that appears grumpy? Probably not! Studies show that smiling will release endorphins and they’re contagious for initiating conversation.
Have The Confidence To Belong
Women are naturally drawn to strong and confident men, so it’s important to show that you belong. Demonstrate that you’re confident in your own skin, but never mistake this for acting cocky or like you own the place. There’s a world of difference between behaving unbearably full of yourself or acting like that fun guy.
Here’s a quick tip: practice your posture before going out. Stand tall without slouching and keep your shoulders back. While you have a drink in your hand, nod along with the music. Practice your dating skills with an escort and build your confidence without the pressure.
Women are sometimes hard to understand, but everyone can agree that an outgoing, friendly, and confident guy is at the top of most people’s list! Just using some of the tips above will make you significantly more approachable and desirable to the opposite sex.